Sunday, August 9, 2015

Babyboys Legacy Lives On

Our Story and why we turn purple every year on
June 24-30

Terri Davis is one of those people who has fought her way through depression, tears and heartache to change the bad things that happen into good.  The memory of Babyboy has touched thousands of lives and raised awareness against animal abuse, not only all over the country, but the world.  Babyboy's memory has spurred Terri to become an advocate for animal rights which has rescued countless dogs from abuse and homelessness.  She also provides comfort and counseling for those suffering from the loss of beloved animal companions.  (Terri and her fellow volunteers rescued Buford and Billy Bob from death row in Alabama, who were recently adopted into ABC families.)

In 2006 Terri brought the Basset Hound puppy, Babyboy, home for her two daughters.  Rebecca was 12 and Courtney was 13.  As any Basset savvy person knows Bassets and kids are made for each other.  Her daughters bonded with their new puppy.  Terri herself loved Babyboy as a son.  In Terri's own words: "He was with me through my darkest time in life and words can’t explain the bond we shared. That bond of love will never be broken."  Babyboy was coddled and loved as a beloved son.  He was never left outside and slept indoors with her children.

 Babyboys Memorial

In June of 2008, Babyboy got loose from the house through an open door.  We all know that sick, frightening, gut-wrenching feeling when we notice a beloved pet is missing.  Most of the time everything turns out ok and we renew our efforts to keep the dog protected in our home or pens.  In Terri's case the nightmare became reality.  Babyboy, loose for the first and only time, wandered into a neighbor's yard where he was shot in the back and killed.  An eyewitness account said he suffered for about five minutes before passing away.  The vet who examined him said that had he lived he never would have walked again as the bullet hit his lower back in his spine.  The angle of the shot showed that Babyboy had been walking away from the shooter.

Terri and her children were distraught and traumatized.  Becca who shared a special bond with Babyboy was inconsolable and Terri sat up with her many nights trying to comfort her.  Terri herself suffered illness from depression and post-traumatic-stress disorder.  They all missed Babyboy and grieved for his passing.  They wanted his life to have some meaning and to be remembered.

Babyboy's killer admitted to shooting the Basset Hound and Terri embarked on a two year long fight to gain justice for Babyboy in the courts.  Animal cruelty can be a felony crime in Alabama and is, at the very least, a Class B misdemeanor.  Terri's intent was to hold the shooter responsible for the killing of a beloved family member.  When no criminal charges were pressed, Terri embarked on a civil suit endeavoring to provide some comfort and closure for her family to this terrible event.  As things turned out the courts did not grant her family the justice they sought and the case was settled.  However, Babyboy's murder changed the lives of Terri and her family forever.

During this process Terri learned a great deal about animal cruelty.  Turning to Facebook to connect with others who had been victims of animal cruelty she met literally thousands of folk who shared her pain.  She began to appreciate the plight of unwanted animals and set out to make a difference in their lives.  The list of her achievements since 2008 is very long (I'm sure I will miss some so take a look for yourself.)  I think that Babyboy must be very pleased at the legacy he has left the world.

Over 1,700 people attended a memorial for Babyboy on June 28, 2011 and Terri set up Babyboy's Memorial on Facebook.   It includes pictures and videos of Babyboy in his loving home.  In response to the overwhelming interest in and support for Babyboy's story, Terri set up The Official Voice for the Voiceless which reports stories of animals who were the victims of abuse and cruelty.  This site boasts more than 7,936 members and truly is their voice that tells the stories that otherwise would never be heard.

In 2008 Terri set up The Voice for the Voiceless  Blog and  Rainbow Bridge &, Paws on My Heart,facebook groups for people whose animals lost their lives to violent crime.  The blogs received 100,000 views in the first year and her Rainbow bridge page has more than 7,760 members and one of the most loving and friendly pet loss groups on facebook. In 2010  She began making beautiful jewelry and keepsake memorials for families grieving the loss of beloved animals.  She holds auctions for her memorial jewelry (Jewelry 2 Benefit Paws) and rainbow bridge artwork and donates the proceeds to Basset Hound rescues across the country she has also donated many items to rescues across the U.S. and the rescues get 100% of what ever the item brings..  Many grieving families gain comfort through Terri's wonderful artwork.In 2012 she put her talent to the test and began custom painting basset hound charms to look exactly like your dog . You can view all her Jewelry designs here                                         

She set up a Facebook Cause site to Turn FB Purple for 1 Week to Raise Awareness Against Animal Abuse.  Its mission is to raise awareness globally and to take a stand against animal cruelty by using a purple profile picture and tying purple ribbons around your mailbox or trees..  This Cause Page had an amazing 426,543 members to date from all over the world, and is growing daily.  The week she chose to change Facebook profiles purple is the week of Babyboy's shooting - June 24-30th.

Terri is also very involved in local rescue of homeless animals and her own house is always full.  She started a local group called  Basset Hound Rescuers AL and Surround States  They are a group of hound lovers who work tirelessly for homeless and abused Bassets and are saving as many lives as they possibly can without funding of any kind.  In appreciation to ABC for their work in the March Southern transport (which brought Buford, Billy Bob and six other houndies to NY to find their forever homes) Terri set up the page Cause to Raise Funds for ABC Basset Hound Rescue of NY which has raised $475 for ABC Basset Rescue of NY

Terri's philanthropy through her Cause page is so successful mainly due to the huge member base her 'Raise Awareness' page  now boasts.  In 2011  Terri was struck by the awful losses AL suffered in the terrible March storms and tornadoes.  She came across the now famous photo of Greg Cook finding his dog Coco alive in his home, which was leveled to the ground in a tornado. That photo, depicting the love of a man for his dog, prompted Terri to create a Cause page to raise funds for Mr. Cook which raised an amazing $2,400.  Here is a video of Terri Delivering Donation to Mr. Cook.

There are way too many rescue efforts Terri has been involved in to mention here but one more that really touched our hearts was for the House of Puddles, a nonprofit sanctuary for senior, homeless Basset Hounds.  Terri's Cause page for the Basset Hound Retirement Home raised almost $920 for their rescue. 

To date Terri has raised over $ 10,000  for the Causes she has championed.  Quite an amazing achievement for one person!  You can view her Causes at Turn FB Purple to Raise Awareness Against Animal Abuse.

Terri's campaign against animal abuse has spread far and wide.  Maria Daines is a multi-award winning international vocalist and songwriter who was deeply touched by Babyboy's story.  Her music is called United for Animals.  Maria calls her music 'rock for the voiceless'.  Her band opened for US artist Pink, at Cardiff International Arena for the Party For Animals World Wide concert in August 2007. The concert raised over £90,000 for six animal welfare charities. Based in the UK, Maria and her guitarist/ producer Paul Killington, write songs in many genres, including rock, country, folk, blues and soul.  Here is a link to Maria Daines website - "Rock for the Good Times, Blues for the Bad, Music for the Soul."  On her website Maria describes her mission, "I endeavour to give voiceless beings songs to make their plight visible and their stories heard, the fight to overcome injustice and cruelty must never be silent! Compassion is the vital link that makes life bearable when all else fails." They donate their music CDs to rescues around the world to raise funds for rescue.  Daines/Killington wrote and produced this beautiful song In Memory of Babyboy.

The following article was published on Terri and Babyboy's article - 'Animal Cruelty: What Can We Do To Stop It' (5/29/2011).
Terri's remarkable journey from the very pit of animal cruelty is an inspiration and example for animal rescuers everywhere.  Her love and devotion for her Basset Hound Babyboy has raised awareness against animal cruelty all over the world.  The comments on these sites are amazing.  So many people connected with Babyboy's story and now keep him in loving memory.  A fitting legacy for a loving Basset Hound who had a very short life that ended in tragedy, but a very long reach that is educating and comforting thousands.  All we can say is, thank you Terri for making such a difference in the lives of our beloved homeless hounds.

In Loving Memory of Babyboy.  We will always remember you.

                                                                                        Article by Bunny Corti


Tuesday, December 30, 2014

In Memory Of My mother Marilyn


This year began well with my daughter in her last year of high school & going to Prom and her finding her  prince charming Justin. Then all the Graduation celebrations ,its something we have looked forward to for 12 years.

When fall arrived my mother became ill with pneumonia which we thought she would over come and be back home but our hopes of that happening was crushed when the doctors told us my moms heart was giving out and she would not be able to pull out of it.                  
Dad took me in the hall it was like what you always see in the movies and dad said the doctors says theres nothing more they can do for momma and she will be leaving us soon and we need to prepare the family those words are the worst thing Ive ever heard. They asked my mom if she wanted to continue her care in the hospital our go home to be with her family and friends  and she chose to spend her last days at homes surrounded by her loved ones , children and grandchildren.

Oct. 3rd was Mom and Dads 45th Anniversary so we did what any family would do and we had a party right their in the ICU Unit. With my heart being torn apart  I make it to walmart and pick out a beautiful cake to celebrate their 45 wonderful years they had together. Ive never felt so lost but I bought mom a pink and white scarf something to make her feel pretty. I fixed her makeup and hair then all her friends and family started arriving. All of this had to be planned so fast to make it as special as we could for mom. Throughout those last few days I sat their and watched as my dad comforted my mom and smiling telling her everthings gonna be alright. Then there was the very emotional last wishes mom spoke about and Im listening to her but still something inside wasn't allowing me to fully grasp the fact that my mom was dying.

Mom came home on Oct 4th after spending a week in ICU. It was so good to have her home but we all knew the clock was ticking and it would only be a matter of time. over the next 6 days I don't think I hardly slept as well as my dad. Our ears was totally listening and waiting second by second. There was so many people that came to visit my mom and tell her how much they loved her. Ive never seen so many people at moms house.  


 But on sunday Oct 5th The living room was filled with friends as her best friend started to sing those heavenly songs. Mom was getting weaker as the days rolled on. My cousins came to help me with mom and explain to me the different stages mom would be going through. I didn't fully understand until Oct 8th and they said it can be at anytime. dad laid down on a sofa while I moved the recliner next to moms bed so I could lay beside her and cherish every last second of life she had left in her. .

When the sounds got worse I woke dad and said its time and we need to call the family back.After her sisters and best friend arrived they had a few moments to say there last goodbyes then Mom peacefully left us and went to heaven as daddy heald her hand and let her go be with Jesus. Mom was a Christian for 47 years and throughout her life she was very loving and giving to anyone in need. Mother looked so peaceful at the funeral and there was so many people there  that some had to stand in the back. At the graveside service the preacher was talking very fast as though something was about to happen and the strangest thing accrued.

The winds picked up and started blowing very strong as we all stood on a hill side we could see the strong storm approaching. The winds seem to be 50 mph then the rain came. I was running around trying to get some flowers to take home and I ran over to moms casket and I laid my head on it and said "Ill miss you so much momma then I kissed her casket while the rain is pouring down there was 2 men standing at each pole so  the canopy didn't fly away.  I jumped in the car with dad and I looked back as though I was in a movie or this was just a dream. I never knew how bad it would hurt to lose my precious mom and if given a chance to do things different I would have been the best daughter I could be.

After moms death there was many things to come ,Gracies birthday was 2 weeks away which we all just tried so hard to forget  about our loss and celebrate her birth. Then followed Thanksgiving whichwe all gathered at dads like we have always done .The next few weeks I found myself trying so hard to not break down so I would go hang out out at thrift stores for hours just looking through junk so my mind wouldnt drift back to memories of mom. Christmas seemed to move so fast we all dreeded to see it come but like always I bought for all the kids and this year I was even shopping for my sisters 2 girls. On Christmas day me and my daughters drove over to the grave and placed a Christmas tree on her grave  .Thats one thing I thought I wouldnt ever have to face but as I see its  something everyone must face.

But   before my mom left  this world after many years of praying Id get right with God . I took my moms hand as she laid in that hospital bed  and I said ; Mom will you help me ask Jesus into my heart Because I cant make it without him. I"ll never forget that special moment I had just me and her. I miss you mom

                                  Love always ,your daughter Terri